In most respects, the late singer and actor David Bowie conformed to what I have labeled as the “classic gay boy” syndrome: a boy with a detached and unloving father, certain effeminate traits, and an interest in the arts. Part and parcel with this feeling of loneliness and alienation from the father goes a marked idolization of larger-than-life mythic figures from entertainment, in his case, Bowie repeatedly described his childhood fascination with American rock singers, such as Elvis Presley; and, with the movie star James Dean; he said of Dean: “James Dean epitomized the very thing that is so campily respectable today–the male hustler…He had quite a sordid little reputation. I admire him immensely.” In turn, Bowie, served as a “gay” icon to the generation which followed him, in particular for Boy George, Madonna, and Morrissey; of Bowie, Morrissey said: “When he [Bowie] launched himself on ‘Top of the Pops’ and ‘Lift Off with Ayshea’ singing Starman, there was no doubt that this was fanatically homosexual; it was a darker force and it was in Bowie’s eyes, his mouth, his voice, and it was menace and he really didn’t care at all about dislodging people.”
Bowie remembers his father:
“I could never, ever talk to my father. I really loved him, but we couldn’t talk about anything together. There was this really British thing that being even remotely emotional was absolutely verboten.
I spent so much time in my bedroom. It really was my entire world. I had books up there, my music up there, my record player. Going from my world upstairs out onto the street, I had to pass through this no-man’s-land of the living room, you know, and out the front hall.”
From a 1976 interview with “Playboy” Magazine:
“It’s true–I am a bisexual. But I can’t deny that I’ve used that fact very well. I suppose it’s the best thing that ever happened to me. Fun, too…when I was 14, sex suddenly became all-important to me. It didn’t really matter who or what it was with, as long as it was a sexual experience.”
From a 1973 interview:
Interviewer: I remember you saying once that you’ve already have most of the experience that you’re likely to go through in the next 40 years.
Bowie: I feel so—I feel so.
Interviewer: You were through the experiences perhaps but…
Bowie: Yeah—I went through a lot of experiences. I’ve been through a lot as a boy, as a teenager and I’m still going through them now and there is no stop.
Interviewer: This “growing up before one’s time” can at times lead to any amount of various functional disorders.
Other broken boys:
https://josephsciambra.com/2014/10/x-men-gay-actor-describes-monster-father.html
https://josephsciambra.com/2015/11/5-gay-male-celebrities-5-stories-of.html
https://josephsciambra.com/2015/11/elton-john-becomes-spokesman-for.html
Sad…so very sad…imagining the lonliness of a young boy, desperately needing his father who is there but ever so far away! I pray for children every day, who are experiencing such deprivation and the grace of conversion for all parents to be involved in their children's lives. Thank you for the vital work you do Joseph! Ongoing prayers for your efforts to bear much fruit! I have and will continue to tell people about you! God is surely smiling at you!
The Vatican says he is “santo subito” now. Didn't clarify if he was baptised and made a good confession to a Catholic priest before he died, but then all that rigid stuff has been got rid of in favour of Modernism. The only way to go, it seems (NOT).
The BBC provided 15 minutes of Bowie as the headline story in tonight's news. The effects of a strike by junior doctors and its effects on patients got the following 5 minutes! My wife, who is not a Catholic, was as infuriated as I was. The sobbing fans and floral tributes outside his London home were shown and he was afforded the BBC's secular 'canonisation' which is becoming so familiar. Tonight the BBC's schedules were cancelled to be replaced by tributes to this broken man who may have assisted in the breaking of many others who saw 'gay' as cool.